A Place for Mid‑Life Women to Exhale

Jamie Katoff and Victoria Whisman, licensed therapists at A Place to Exhale, smiling outdoors in a sunlit vineyard setting

A Place for Mid‑Life Women to Exhale

Jamie Katoff and Victoria Whisman, licensed therapists at A Place to Exhale, smiling outdoors in a sunlit vineyard setting

Therapy for perimenopause, the sandwich generation, and patterns of codependency.

Midlife is often the first time women are navigating hormonal changes, aging parents, shifting relationships, and questions about identity — all at once.

And yet somehow, you're still expected to hold it all together.

This is a space created specifically for women in that season. A place where your experience is taken seriously, your symptoms aren't minimized, and your emotional labor is finally visible.

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What about me

Mid‑life can feel like standing at the center of everything — changing hormones, aging parents, growing or launched children, long‑standing relationships that suddenly feel strained.

We Specialize In

The realities of
mid‑life

Perimenopause & Hormonal Transitions

Mood swings, anxiety, rage, brain fog, grief, insomnia, and a sense of losing yourself are not character flaws — they are common responses to profound hormonal change. We help you understand what's happening in your body and mind, and support you in finding steadiness, self‑trust, and relief.

The Sandwich Generation

Caring for aging parents while still supporting children — emotionally, financially, or both — can leave women depleted, resentful, and invisible. We work with the guilt, burnout, boundary struggles, and identity loss that come with being needed by everyone, all the time.

Codependency & Over-Functioning

Many mid‑life women discover that the coping strategies that once kept everything running — people‑pleasing, emotional caretaking, over‑responsibility — are no longer sustainable. Therapy can help you untangle these patterns, strengthen boundaries, and reconnect with your own needs without shame.

Our Approach

Mid‑life is not a breakdown.
It's a reckoning.

An invitation to do things differently. You don't need to be in crisis to come to therapy. You just need to be ready to stop doing this alone.

Trauma-Informed & Relational

We work with your history, not against it.

Collaborative, Not Prescriptive

You are the authority on your own experience.

Nervous-System Aware

Grounded in how your body holds what your mind carries.

Deeply Respectful

Of your lived experience, your complexity, and your pace.

Meet the Therapists

Victoria & Jamie — Two practitioners. One shared purpose.

Victoria works with women navigating mid‑life transitions, combining relational, psychodynamic, mindfulness, and trauma-informed approaches to increase self-awareness, balance the nervous system, and strengthen boundaries.

Her therapy style is warm, supportive, and interactive — emphasizing mind-body connection, self-understanding, and practical tools for life outside the therapy room. She helps women recognize unhelpful patterns and develop compassionate self-care practices.

Clients appreciate Victoria for her ability to cultivate safety and insight, guiding them to understand how past experiences shape present choices.

With nearly 20 years of experience, Jamie supports women and couples through mid‑life mental health challenges including perimenopause, sandwich‑generation stress, and codependency.

She has a particular passion for helping clients make sense of mood changes, anxiety, irritability, grief, and identity shifts that are often misunderstood or dismissed — integrating validation, psychoeducation, and a nervous‑system‑informed approach to restore self‑trust and emotional balance.

Jamie believes therapy in mid‑life is not about fixing what's broken, but about honoring what your system has carried — and choosing what you no longer need to carry forward.